— Relationships & Intimacy · Everett, WA & Online
Relationship & Intimacy Coaching
Attachment, communication, repair, and erotic aliveness — for couples, partnered individuals, and anyone rebuilding their relationship with intimacy.
Most relationship trouble is not a failure of love. It is two nervous systems reacting faster than either person can explain, old attachment strategies doing their job too well, and conversations that have been rehearsed so many times they no longer land.
This work slows that down. Sessions hold both the relational conversation and the body underneath it — what happens in your chest before the argument starts, what closes down before touch, what you have never quite said out loud. Individuals, couples, and families are welcome.
What we work with
- ·Attachment patterns and reactivity
- ·Communication and conflict repair
- ·Intimacy, desire, and erotic reconnection
- ·Sexuality support and sovereignty
- ·Boundaries, consent, and honest asking
- ·Rebuilding trust after rupture
Bodies in the room, not just words
Where it is welcome and consented to, relational work can include somatic and co-regulation practices — learning what settles the two of you, and practicing regulating touch you can bring home. Partner Bodywork gatherings teach the same skills in a group setting.
How sessions are structured
Most people begin with a longer initial session so there is room for both partners' history, then continue with shorter ongoing sessions. Individual work is often the fastest way in when a partner is not ready — you can change a pattern from one side of it.
Who this is for
- ·Couples wanting to stop having the same fight
- ·Partners rebuilding intimacy after distance or rupture
- ·Individuals working on attachment and relating
- ·People reclaiming sexuality and erotic aliveness
- ·Neurodivergent and mixed-neurotype partnerships
- ·Families navigating a hard transition
Where we meet
In person in Everett, Washington, and online — online is often the easiest way for couples in different places or on different schedules to be in the same session.
In-person work is held at Kindred Healing Space in Everett, Washington on Mondays and Tuesdays, with online sessions available midweek for clients elsewhere.
Related pathways
- Relationships & Sexuality Pathway
The full relational menu.
- Therapy & Coaching
Individuals, couples, and families.
- Partner Bodywork
Learn regulating touch together.
- Nervous System Regulation
The physiology underneath conflict.
Ready when you are.
Choose a time that fits, or ask a question first — both doors are open.